Meet at a coffee shop or bistro for a cappuccino and share something chocolate. Don't go together. Let him or her watch you walk in, or visa-versa. Make eye contact. Talk like old friends. Talk about movies, books, high school, when you met. Remember why you fell in love in the first place.

Spend a day together at any of the many wonderful summer craft fairs and do your Christmas shopping in July.

Massage for couples; work out the bad energies, and massage in the good. Make massage certificates; one for a foot massage, a scalp massage, a back massage, and a full body massage. Take each certificate and seal it in a separate envelope. Pink or red envelopes are best, or with heart stickers all over it; whatever you need to do to keep the envelope from looking like a bill. Once a month, you and your spouse pick an envelope and deliver whatever is inside. You can also mail one of these envelopes to your spouse at work. What a delightful way to say "I'm thinking of you".